Heyh you,we might be best friends one year, pretty good friends the next year,don't talk that often the next, and don't want to talk at all the year after that. So, I just wanted to say........"even if I never talk to you again in my life, you are special to me and you have made a difference in my life" i care bout you my dear.Perhaps, a guy and a girl can be friends. But sooner or later one will fall for the other. Maybe too early, maybe too late, but maybe, just maybe forever. Frankly speak,don't blame the gravity when u fall in that particular feeling.It's all about happiness. Everybody wants happiness. Nobody wants pain. But you can't have a rainbow, without a little rain. (aku harap smua pham aku bermetafora) =) always remember,life is process of learning. It's just like a fantastic game. The game of life is a lot like football. You have to tackle your problems, block your fears, and score your points when you get the opportunity. last but not least,dare to dream and work for ur dream my frenz.chill.
p/s:post ini tiada kaitan antara hidup @ yg mati. =)
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Monday, December 13, 2010
What you see is what you get
Cerdik pandai pernah menyatakan"Cara kita melihat menentukan siapa kita".
Benarlah begitu, kerana seseorang yang menjadikan suasananya positif pasti akan melihat semua perkara adalah positif.
Hadapilah perbezaan pendapat dengan senyuman nescaya masalah itu pasti senyum kembali kepada kita.
Sekurang-kurangnya kita tahu bahawa sudut yang kita ketahui sebenarnya mempunyai sudut lain yang belum kita ketahui.
Kadang-kadang kita tidak nampak dalam diri ada kekurangan, dan sebab itulah kita perlu teman mahupun rakan taulan untuk memberitahu.
Perbezaan pendapat sangat baik, kerana ia mencetuskan idea yang berlainan, cara fikir yang berbeza dan lebih terbuka, pengetahuan yang meluas juga menentukan jati diri seseorang individu bergelar hamba Allah.
Sebagai contoh,3 orang pelajar yang termenung di dalam kelas dan memandang ke luar, seorang melihat kepada pokok, seorang lagi melihat kepada awan, dan seorang lagi melihat kepada padang bola, semuanya pasti mempunyai tafsiran berbeza terhadap objek.
Allah s.w.t menciptakan manusia ini berbeza dari segi cara mereka berfikir.
Itulah kehebatan Maha Pencipta.
Dalam berbilion-bilion manusia jarang sekali mempunyai pendapat yang sama pada waktu yang sama.
Oleh sebab itulah kita harus menerima perbezaan pendapat, walaupun ramai yang tidak mampu menerima kerana sudah terbiasa di didik dengan 'rasa betul'.
Apabila berlaku perbezaan, hatinya cepat marah.
Orang-orang dahulu pernah mengatakan "cerek yang kecil lebih mudah panas, begitu juga orang yang berhati kecil".
Kenapa perlu merasa panas hati apabila orang lain berpendapat berbeza? pengalaman kehidupan manusia itu tidak pernah sama.rambut manusia sahaja sama hitam tetapi hati mempunyai 1001 pendapat yg acap kali berbeza.
Si A memandang pokok kelapa kerana dia hanya mempunyai pengetahuan tentang buahnya, tetapi si B apabila memandang pokok kelapa, dia tahu dari daun, batang sehingga ke buah mempunyai kegunaan tersendiri.
Begitu juga orang yang belajar.
Kita mungkin belajar pada tempat berbeza dengan guru yang berbeza.
Pemahaman kita dengan orang lain sudah tentu berbeza.
Mana mungkin Si A belajar dengan guru B tetapi mengetahui apa yang diajarkan oleh guru C pada masa yang sama.
Sikap kita melambangkan siapa kita.
Orang yang tidak boleh menerima pendapat orang lain, bermakna dia orang yang berfikiran negatif dan selalunya baran.
Orang begini tidak boleh bekerja secara berkumpulan atau menghadiri mesyuarat apa pun, kerana pasti mendatangkan masalah.
Pernah suatu ketika seorang ahli falsafah yang bernama Galileo Galilei yang lahir di Pisa pada tahun 1564 ditangkap oleh pihak gereja pada zamannya hanya kerana berbeza pendapat dalam hal samada bumi itu bulat atau tidak.
Beliau mendapati bumi itu bulat, ini bermakna dia bertentangan dengan pendapat gereja kerana kepercayaan gereja ketika itu adalah bumi itu leper, Justeru, dia ditangkap kerana berbeza pendapat dengan pihak gereja.
p/s:aku mengaku aku juga panas baran dan kadang kala aku pkir aku shajer btol. =)
Benarlah begitu, kerana seseorang yang menjadikan suasananya positif pasti akan melihat semua perkara adalah positif.
Hadapilah perbezaan pendapat dengan senyuman nescaya masalah itu pasti senyum kembali kepada kita.
Sekurang-kurangnya kita tahu bahawa sudut yang kita ketahui sebenarnya mempunyai sudut lain yang belum kita ketahui.
Kadang-kadang kita tidak nampak dalam diri ada kekurangan, dan sebab itulah kita perlu teman mahupun rakan taulan untuk memberitahu.
Perbezaan pendapat sangat baik, kerana ia mencetuskan idea yang berlainan, cara fikir yang berbeza dan lebih terbuka, pengetahuan yang meluas juga menentukan jati diri seseorang individu bergelar hamba Allah.
Sebagai contoh,3 orang pelajar yang termenung di dalam kelas dan memandang ke luar, seorang melihat kepada pokok, seorang lagi melihat kepada awan, dan seorang lagi melihat kepada padang bola, semuanya pasti mempunyai tafsiran berbeza terhadap objek.
Allah s.w.t menciptakan manusia ini berbeza dari segi cara mereka berfikir.
Itulah kehebatan Maha Pencipta.
Dalam berbilion-bilion manusia jarang sekali mempunyai pendapat yang sama pada waktu yang sama.
Oleh sebab itulah kita harus menerima perbezaan pendapat, walaupun ramai yang tidak mampu menerima kerana sudah terbiasa di didik dengan 'rasa betul'.
Apabila berlaku perbezaan, hatinya cepat marah.
Orang-orang dahulu pernah mengatakan "cerek yang kecil lebih mudah panas, begitu juga orang yang berhati kecil".
Kenapa perlu merasa panas hati apabila orang lain berpendapat berbeza? pengalaman kehidupan manusia itu tidak pernah sama.rambut manusia sahaja sama hitam tetapi hati mempunyai 1001 pendapat yg acap kali berbeza.
Si A memandang pokok kelapa kerana dia hanya mempunyai pengetahuan tentang buahnya, tetapi si B apabila memandang pokok kelapa, dia tahu dari daun, batang sehingga ke buah mempunyai kegunaan tersendiri.
Begitu juga orang yang belajar.
Kita mungkin belajar pada tempat berbeza dengan guru yang berbeza.
Pemahaman kita dengan orang lain sudah tentu berbeza.
Mana mungkin Si A belajar dengan guru B tetapi mengetahui apa yang diajarkan oleh guru C pada masa yang sama.
Sikap kita melambangkan siapa kita.
Orang yang tidak boleh menerima pendapat orang lain, bermakna dia orang yang berfikiran negatif dan selalunya baran.
Orang begini tidak boleh bekerja secara berkumpulan atau menghadiri mesyuarat apa pun, kerana pasti mendatangkan masalah.
Pernah suatu ketika seorang ahli falsafah yang bernama Galileo Galilei yang lahir di Pisa pada tahun 1564 ditangkap oleh pihak gereja pada zamannya hanya kerana berbeza pendapat dalam hal samada bumi itu bulat atau tidak.
Beliau mendapati bumi itu bulat, ini bermakna dia bertentangan dengan pendapat gereja kerana kepercayaan gereja ketika itu adalah bumi itu leper, Justeru, dia ditangkap kerana berbeza pendapat dengan pihak gereja.
p/s:aku mengaku aku juga panas baran dan kadang kala aku pkir aku shajer btol. =)
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Keluarga @ Kerjaya?
A woman came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find her 5 years old son waiting for her at the door.
Son: Mummy, can I ask you a question?
Mum: Yes, sure. What is it?
Son: Mummy, how much do you make an hour?
Mum: That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing. The woman said angrily.
Son: I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?
Mum: If you must know, I make RM50 an hour.
Son: Oh. The little boy replied, with his head down.
Son: Mummy, can I borrow RM25?
The mother was furious.
Mum: If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you're being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.
The little boy then quietly went to his room and shut the door. The woman sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.
How dare he asked such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the woman had calmed down and started to think. Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that RM25 and he really didn't asked for money very often. The woman went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
Mum: Are you asleep, son?
Son: No mummy, I'm awake.
Mum: I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the RM25 you asked for.
The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
Son: Oh, thank you mummy! He yelled, then reaching under his pillow, he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The woman saw the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his mother.
Mum: Why do you want more money if you already have some?!
Son: Because I didn't have enough. But now I do........ Mummy, I have RM50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.
The mother was crushed. She puts her arms arround her little son, and she begged for his forgiveness.
P/S:It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.AKU mengaku,kdang2 aku terlalu fokus utk mencipta kegemilangan tanpa menghiraukan manusia yg sering membuat aku tersenyum.MAMA & PAPA.aku syg mereka wlaupon aku x tau cmner nk ckp.yelarh ego yg tinngi dlm diriku ini.wktu tgh belajar,aku jarang blik umah.(pdahal kat uitm puncak alam jer bkn luar negara). wktu sem break lak aku sibuk kerja.smpi jarang duduk umah.so guys,hargai mereka selagi mereka masih ada.ADAM SYG PAPA & MAMA. =)
Son: Mummy, can I ask you a question?
Mum: Yes, sure. What is it?
Son: Mummy, how much do you make an hour?
Mum: That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing. The woman said angrily.
Son: I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?
Mum: If you must know, I make RM50 an hour.
Son: Oh. The little boy replied, with his head down.
Son: Mummy, can I borrow RM25?
The mother was furious.
Mum: If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you're being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.
The little boy then quietly went to his room and shut the door. The woman sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.
How dare he asked such questions only to get some money?
After about an hour or so, the woman had calmed down and started to think. Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that RM25 and he really didn't asked for money very often. The woman went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.
Mum: Are you asleep, son?
Son: No mummy, I'm awake.
Mum: I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the RM25 you asked for.
The little boy sat straight up, smiling.
Son: Oh, thank you mummy! He yelled, then reaching under his pillow, he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The woman saw the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his mother.
Mum: Why do you want more money if you already have some?!
Son: Because I didn't have enough. But now I do........ Mummy, I have RM50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.
The mother was crushed. She puts her arms arround her little son, and she begged for his forgiveness.
P/S:It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.AKU mengaku,kdang2 aku terlalu fokus utk mencipta kegemilangan tanpa menghiraukan manusia yg sering membuat aku tersenyum.MAMA & PAPA.aku syg mereka wlaupon aku x tau cmner nk ckp.yelarh ego yg tinngi dlm diriku ini.wktu tgh belajar,aku jarang blik umah.(pdahal kat uitm puncak alam jer bkn luar negara). wktu sem break lak aku sibuk kerja.smpi jarang duduk umah.so guys,hargai mereka selagi mereka masih ada.ADAM SYG PAPA & MAMA. =)
Friday, July 16, 2010
How to Stage a Successful Comeback and Win Your Ex Instantly After a Relationship Breakup Or Crisis
By Tosin Ajibowo and Nkechi Ajibowo
One thing can be said about relationship breakups and that is you can stage a comeback if you so desire and are not prepared to call it quits with your boyfriend, girlfriend, lover, mate, partner, spouse or Ex.
It is no longer news to you hearing that so and so in such and such relationship broke up or is separated because check this out, you are in the middle of a relationship crisis that has ended in breakup.
Tell you what, it can be tough and/or frightening waking up to the realization that your love relationship is suddenly over and it all depends on how you take it in addition to the circumstances that led to your separation presently.
However, one thing that can be said in your favour or to your credit is that you are willing and ready to give your relationship breakup a fight to see things restored back even as you attempt to reconcile and become reunited with your lover and Ex.
Surprisingly, not many lovers tow this line or attempt to make up after a breakup has occurred in their relationship.
You must be warned that what things you thought to do to make your Ex realize why the breakup should not have happened, or why you feel you should still be together in your relationship might simply not be as easy as you imagined.
The simple reason is that the atmosphere of your love relationship has been drastically changed or altered by reason of the breakup that has happened. As such, emotions are still strung tense and there are areas where events have become a personal issue for both of you.
During this season that both of you are separated, placing voice calls or sending secret love messages of I still love you, I can't go another day without you in my life, or pulling whatever emotional tantrums will only help to keep the door shut against you for a comeback, reconciliation or getting your Ex back.
If this is what you have been up to lately, I advise you to PLEASE STOP right this moment. You are doing damage to whatever chances you have left for a successful comeback and getting your Ex back to your side and in your arms once again.
A proven trick that has been known to work even for difficult relationship breakup situations is for you to learn and master how to become attractive inside and out again. This is the start point before anything else. Furthermore, you can successfully win back his/her love in addition to being able to attract him/her to your side for another chance with your love relationship if you will only learn how.
Learn the powerful secrets to winning your Ex Lover and gain his/her attraction for you back by visiting Successful Relationship Comebacks. Putting pressure on your Ex to take you back or to return back to you might be counter productive to your intentions, go to Magic of Making-Up and discover like a thousands others who have been helped the proven system that works 99% of the time for reuniting Ex Lovers back.
Friday, June 25, 2010
Invest Yourself in Degree
by Tara Dubbs
You'll Be a Better Person
College grads exhibit a higher prevalence of desirable personality traits. In a report published by the Carnegie Foundation, researchers found that postsecondary students were "more open-minded, more cultured, more rational, more consistent, and less authoritarian." What's more, your children inherit these personality traits. They also found that attending college will "decrease prejudice, enhance knowledge of world affairs, and enhance social status."
College Does the Body Good
More highly educated people have lower incidences of many serious illnesses. According to the study "Disease and Disadvantage in the United States and in England," published by the American Medical Association, people with high levels of education reported lower rates of diabetes, hypertension, heart disease, stroke, and lung disease. College graduates also smoke less and have lower obesity rates than less-educated Americans. Furthermore, "parental schooling levels are positively correlated with the health status of their children."
The Bright Side of Graduation
Graduating college makes you think positively. A study by Cohn and Geske found that "college graduates appear to have a more-optimistic view of their past and future personal progress." It's no surprise that there is a high correlation between higher education and good cultural and family values.
Everyone Benefits from Your Degree
You are not the only person who reaps the benefits of a college degree. The Institute for Higher Education Policy finds that the public will benefit from increased tax revenues and greater consumption. College graduates are also less reliant on financial support from the government. And the workforce will benefit from college graduates' greater productivity and flexibility.
You'll Be a Better Person
College grads exhibit a higher prevalence of desirable personality traits. In a report published by the Carnegie Foundation, researchers found that postsecondary students were "more open-minded, more cultured, more rational, more consistent, and less authoritarian." What's more, your children inherit these personality traits. They also found that attending college will "decrease prejudice, enhance knowledge of world affairs, and enhance social status."
College Does the Body Good
More highly educated people have lower incidences of many serious illnesses. According to the study "Disease and Disadvantage in the United States and in England," published by the American Medical Association, people with high levels of education reported lower rates of diabetes, hypertension, heart disease, stroke, and lung disease. College graduates also smoke less and have lower obesity rates than less-educated Americans. Furthermore, "parental schooling levels are positively correlated with the health status of their children."
The Bright Side of Graduation
Graduating college makes you think positively. A study by Cohn and Geske found that "college graduates appear to have a more-optimistic view of their past and future personal progress." It's no surprise that there is a high correlation between higher education and good cultural and family values.
Everyone Benefits from Your Degree
You are not the only person who reaps the benefits of a college degree. The Institute for Higher Education Policy finds that the public will benefit from increased tax revenues and greater consumption. College graduates are also less reliant on financial support from the government. And the workforce will benefit from college graduates' greater productivity and flexibility.
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Dreams
Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.
Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow...
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly.
Hold fast to dreams
For when dreams go
Life is a barren field
Frozen with snow...
Friday, May 28, 2010
Tiger Lily
Perhaps it's far too early to reveal
A feeling not yet ready to be love.
The light of dawn, though hesitant, is real;
Real as well the hopes that time will prove.
I dance across the meadows of my heart
Carrying doubts that mingle joy and fear.
I know I'm half myself when we're apart;
All I want is with me when you're near.
Some people think that friends should be just friends;
To try for more might ruin what they have.
I think the closest friend is one you love,
Sharing life with words and lips and hands.
One caress unravels mysteries
Lodged behind the most elaborate mask.
The revelation's more than worth the risk.
I want with you such sweet simplicities.
I want us to be friends who now are free
To speak with all the languages of touch.
I want to share your anguish with a kiss
And feel your happiness against my cheek.
I'm sorry for the way I say I love you.
I know this kind of talk is far too soon.
I cannot stop myself; I just adore you.
And so this truth pronounces its own doom.
But when a truth betrays itself, I wonder:
Could it be that such a truth be true?
Or could the sweet compulsion that I'm under
Be caused in part by ignorance of you?
I know only the truth of what I feel,
Which lies beneath all sanity or rule.
My love for you is deep and rich and real,
Though it may be I simply am a fool.
Time will tell the truth, for if you do
Not want my love, I cannot long love you.
Goodbye, my lover and my friend,
On whom I lean my life,
On whom my fortunes now depend,
Do, for me, keep safe.
Be brave, my love, but also know
You live not just for one, but two,
Even as I wait....
A feeling not yet ready to be love.
The light of dawn, though hesitant, is real;
Real as well the hopes that time will prove.
I dance across the meadows of my heart
Carrying doubts that mingle joy and fear.
I know I'm half myself when we're apart;
All I want is with me when you're near.
Some people think that friends should be just friends;
To try for more might ruin what they have.
I think the closest friend is one you love,
Sharing life with words and lips and hands.
One caress unravels mysteries
Lodged behind the most elaborate mask.
The revelation's more than worth the risk.
I want with you such sweet simplicities.
I want us to be friends who now are free
To speak with all the languages of touch.
I want to share your anguish with a kiss
And feel your happiness against my cheek.
I'm sorry for the way I say I love you.
I know this kind of talk is far too soon.
I cannot stop myself; I just adore you.
And so this truth pronounces its own doom.
But when a truth betrays itself, I wonder:
Could it be that such a truth be true?
Or could the sweet compulsion that I'm under
Be caused in part by ignorance of you?
I know only the truth of what I feel,
Which lies beneath all sanity or rule.
My love for you is deep and rich and real,
Though it may be I simply am a fool.
Time will tell the truth, for if you do
Not want my love, I cannot long love you.
Goodbye, my lover and my friend,
On whom I lean my life,
On whom my fortunes now depend,
Do, for me, keep safe.
Be brave, my love, but also know
You live not just for one, but two,
Even as I wait....
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