Thursday, December 30, 2010

aku,kau dan dia

Heyh you,we might be best friends one year, pretty good friends the next year,don't talk that often the next, and don't want to talk at all the year after that. So, I just wanted to say........"even if I never talk to you again in my life, you are special to me and you have made a difference in my life" i care bout you my dear.Perhaps, a guy and a girl can be friends. But sooner or later one will fall for the other. Maybe too early, maybe too late, but maybe, just maybe forever. Frankly speak,don't blame the gravity when u fall in that particular feeling.It's all about happiness. Everybody wants happiness. Nobody wants pain. But you can't have a rainbow, without a little rain. (aku harap smua pham aku bermetafora) =) always remember,life is process of learning. It's just like a fantastic game. The game of life is a lot like football. You have to tackle your problems, block your fears, and score your points when you get the opportunity. last but not least,dare to dream and work for ur dream my frenz.chill.

p/s:post ini tiada kaitan antara hidup @ yg mati. =)

Monday, December 13, 2010

What you see is what you get

Cerdik pandai pernah menyatakan"Cara kita melihat menentukan siapa kita".

Benarlah begitu, kerana seseorang yang menjadikan suasananya positif pasti akan melihat semua perkara adalah positif.

Hadapilah perbezaan pendapat dengan senyuman nescaya masalah itu pasti senyum kembali kepada kita.

Sekurang-kurangnya kita tahu bahawa sudut yang kita ketahui sebenarnya mempunyai sudut lain yang belum kita ketahui.

Kadang-kadang kita tidak nampak dalam diri ada kekurangan, dan sebab itulah kita perlu teman mahupun rakan taulan untuk memberitahu.

Perbezaan pendapat sangat baik, kerana ia mencetuskan idea yang berlainan, cara fikir yang berbeza dan lebih terbuka, pengetahuan yang meluas juga menentukan jati diri seseorang individu bergelar hamba Allah.

Sebagai contoh,3 orang pelajar yang termenung di dalam kelas dan memandang ke luar, seorang melihat kepada pokok, seorang lagi melihat kepada awan, dan seorang lagi melihat kepada padang bola, semuanya pasti mempunyai tafsiran berbeza terhadap objek.

Allah s.w.t menciptakan manusia ini berbeza dari segi cara mereka berfikir.

Itulah kehebatan Maha Pencipta.

Dalam berbilion-bilion manusia jarang sekali mempunyai pendapat yang sama pada waktu yang sama.

Oleh sebab itulah kita harus menerima perbezaan pendapat, walaupun ramai yang tidak mampu menerima kerana sudah terbiasa di didik dengan 'rasa betul'.

Apabila berlaku perbezaan, hatinya cepat marah.

Orang-orang dahulu pernah mengatakan "cerek yang kecil lebih mudah panas, begitu juga orang yang berhati kecil".

Kenapa perlu merasa panas hati apabila orang lain berpendapat berbeza? pengalaman kehidupan manusia itu tidak pernah sama.rambut manusia sahaja sama hitam tetapi hati mempunyai 1001 pendapat yg acap kali berbeza.

Si A memandang pokok kelapa kerana dia hanya mempunyai pengetahuan tentang buahnya, tetapi si B apabila memandang pokok kelapa, dia tahu dari daun, batang sehingga ke buah mempunyai kegunaan tersendiri.

Begitu juga orang yang belajar.

Kita mungkin belajar pada tempat berbeza dengan guru yang berbeza.

Pemahaman kita dengan orang lain sudah tentu berbeza.

Mana mungkin Si A belajar dengan guru B tetapi mengetahui apa yang diajarkan oleh guru C pada masa yang sama.

Sikap kita melambangkan siapa kita.

Orang yang tidak boleh menerima pendapat orang lain, bermakna dia orang yang berfikiran negatif dan selalunya baran.

Orang begini tidak boleh bekerja secara berkumpulan atau menghadiri mesyuarat apa pun, kerana pasti mendatangkan masalah.

Pernah suatu ketika seorang ahli falsafah yang bernama Galileo Galilei yang lahir di Pisa pada tahun 1564 ditangkap oleh pihak gereja pada zamannya hanya kerana berbeza pendapat dalam hal samada bumi itu bulat atau tidak.

Beliau mendapati bumi itu bulat, ini bermakna dia bertentangan dengan pendapat gereja kerana kepercayaan gereja ketika itu adalah bumi itu leper, Justeru, dia ditangkap kerana berbeza pendapat dengan pihak gereja.

p/s:aku mengaku aku juga panas baran dan kadang kala aku pkir aku shajer btol. =)

Saturday, December 11, 2010

Keluarga @ Kerjaya?

A woman came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find her 5 years old son waiting for her at the door.

Son: Mummy, can I ask you a question?
Mum: Yes, sure. What is it?
Son: Mummy, how much do you make an hour?
Mum: That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing. The woman said angrily.
Son: I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?
Mum: If you must know, I make RM50 an hour.
Son: Oh. The little boy replied, with his head down.
Son: Mummy, can I borrow RM25?

The mother was furious.

Mum: If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you're being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.

The little boy then quietly went to his room and shut the door. The woman sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.

How dare he asked such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the woman had calmed down and started to think. Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that RM25 and he really didn't asked for money very often. The woman went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

Mum: Are you asleep, son?
Son: No mummy, I'm awake.
Mum: I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier. It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the RM25 you asked for.

The little boy sat straight up, smiling.

Son: Oh, thank you mummy! He yelled, then reaching under his pillow, he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The woman saw the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his mother.

Mum: Why do you want more money if you already have some?!
Son: Because I didn't have enough. But now I do........ Mummy, I have RM50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.

The mother was crushed. She puts her arms arround her little son, and she begged for his forgiveness.

P/S:It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.AKU mengaku,kdang2 aku terlalu fokus utk mencipta kegemilangan tanpa menghiraukan manusia yg sering membuat aku tersenyum.MAMA & PAPA.aku syg mereka wlaupon aku x tau cmner nk ckp.yelarh ego yg tinngi dlm diriku ini.wktu tgh belajar,aku jarang blik umah.(pdahal kat uitm puncak alam jer bkn luar negara). wktu sem break lak aku sibuk kerja.smpi jarang duduk umah.so guys,hargai mereka selagi mereka masih ada.ADAM SYG PAPA & MAMA. =)